Relationships

Apologise first or Wait for them? Apologise first 100% Wait for them 0% It can be forgiven or Never forgivable? It can be forgiven 100% Never forgivable 0% Quiet hours at home or No house rules? Quiet hours at home 0% No house rules 100% The post-date debrief or Keeping details private? The post-date debrief 100% Keeping details private 0% Finding out the baby's sex or Keeping it a surprise? Finding out the baby's sex 50% Keeping it a surprise 50% Holidays with your family or Holidays with your partner's family? Holidays with your family 50% Holidays with your partner's family 50% In-laws with a spare key or No spare key? In-laws with a spare key 50% No spare key 50% Split the bill or One person pays? Split the bill 50% One person pays 50% Dating apps or Meeting in person? Dating apps 50% Meeting in person 50% Big wedding or Eloping? Big wedding 50% Eloping 50% Live together first or Wait until married? Live together first 50% Wait until married 50% Text first or Wait for them? Text first 50% Wait for them 50% Try long distance or End it? Try long distance 50% End it 50% Share phone passwords or Keep them private? Share phone passwords 50% Keep them private 50% Joint account or Separate accounts? Joint account 50% Separate accounts 50% Sleep on it or Sort it out tonight? Sleep on it 50% Sort it out tonight 50% Opposites attract or Similar people last? Opposites attract 50% Similar people last 50% Getting married or Staying unmarried? Getting married 50% Staying unmarried 50% Having kids or Not having kids? Having kids 50% Not having kids 50% One child or Several children? One child 50% Several children 50% Family close by or Family far away? Family close by 50% Family far away 50% Love at first sight or Slow burn? Love at first sight 50% Slow burn 50% Stay friends or Clean break? Stay friends 50% Clean break 50% Just stop replying or Say it honestly? Just stop replying 50% Say it honestly 50% Grand gestures or Small daily things? Grand gestures 50% Small daily things 50% Separate holidays sometimes or Always travel together? Separate holidays sometimes 50% Always travel together 50% Share a bed or Separate beds? Share a bed 50% Separate beds 50% Meet the parents early or Wait a long time? Meet the parents early 50% Wait a long time 50% Affection in public or Keep it private? Affection in public 50% Keep it private 50% Post about it or Keep it offline? Post about it 50% Keep it offline 50% Surprise party or No surprises, please? Surprise party 50% No surprises, please 50% Friends you see weekly or Friends you can call at 3am? Friends you see weekly 50% Friends you can call at 3am 50% Brutal honesty or Kindness first? Brutal honesty 50% Kindness first 50% Get a pet first or Skip straight to kids? Get a pet first 50% Skip straight to kids 50% Do chores together or Divide them up? Do chores together 50% Divide them up 50% Celebrate Valentine's or Ignore it completely? Celebrate Valentine's 50% Ignore it completely 50% Exactly what you asked for or A surprise? Exactly what you asked for 50% A surprise 50% Quiet partner or Sociable partner? Quiet partner 50% Sociable partner 50% Couples therapy or Work it out yourselves? Couples therapy 50% Work it out yourselves 50% Share every hobby or Keep your own? Share every hobby 50% Keep your own 50% Big age gap is fine or Similar age matters? Big age gap is fine 50% Similar age matters 50% Stay for the kids or Separate honestly? Stay for the kids 50% Separate honestly 50% Sign a prenup or No prenup? Sign a prenup 50% No prenup 50% Have the conversation or Let it fade? Have the conversation 50% Let it fade 50% Tell your friend or Stay out of it? Tell your friend 50% Stay out of it 50% Date night at home or Going out? Date night at home 50% Going out 50% Keep score or Let things go? Keep score 50% Let things go 50% Move for love or Stay for yourself? Move for love 50% Stay for yourself 50% Celebrate every milestone or Only the big anniversaries? Celebrate every milestone 50% Only the big anniversaries 50% Phone at the table or Phones away? Phone at the table 50% Phones away 50% Make the first move or Be approached? Make the first move 50% Be approached 50% Share everything or Keep some things to yourself? Share everything 50% Keep some things to yourself 50% Destination wedding or Wedding at home? Destination wedding 50% Wedding at home 50% Say it first or Wait to hear it? Say it first 50% Wait to hear it 50% Being single or Being in a relationship? Being single 50% Being in a relationship 50% Calling in-laws by their first name or Calling them mum and dad? Calling in-laws by their first name 50% Calling them mum and dad 50% Dinner date or Coffee date? Dinner date 50% Coffee date 50% Double dates or Just the two of you? Double dates 50% Just the two of you 50% Public proposal or Private proposal? Public proposal 50% Private proposal 50% Same side of the booth or Opposite sides? Same side of the booth 50% Opposite sides 50% Taking your partner's surname or Keeping your own? Taking your partner's surname 50% Keeping your own 50% Living with friends or Living alone? Living with friends 50% Living alone 50% Childhood friends or Friends made as an adult? Childhood friends 50% Friends made as an adult 50% Big friend group or Few close friends? Big friend group 50% Few close friends 50% Weekly family dinner or Visits now and then? Weekly family dinner 50% Visits now and then 50% Calling your parents daily or Calling once a week? Calling your parents daily 50% Calling once a week 50% Kissing on the first date or Waiting? Kissing on the first date 50% Waiting 50% Dating a coworker or Never mixing work and love? Dating a coworker 50% Never mixing work and love 50% Long engagement or Short engagement? Long engagement 50% Short engagement 50% Kids at the wedding or Adults-only wedding? Kids at the wedding 50% Adults-only wedding 50% Texting all day or Catching up in the evening? Texting all day 50% Catching up in the evening 50% Shared couple calendar or Just remembering things? Shared couple calendar 50% Just remembering things 50% Remembering birthdays yourself or Relying on reminders? Remembering birthdays yourself 50% Relying on reminders 50% Big spoon or Little spoon? Big spoon 50% Little spoon 50% Flowers or Chocolates? Flowers 50% Chocolates 50% Being the trip planner or Just showing up? Being the trip planner 50% Just showing up 50% Matching couple outfits or Never, ever matching? Matching couple outfits 50% Never, ever matching 50% Walk date or Movie date? Walk date 50% Movie date 50% Goodnight call or Goodnight text? Goodnight call 50% Goodnight text 50% Trip with your friends or Trip with your partner? Trip with your friends 50% Trip with your partner 50% Sharing everything on a date or My plate is mine? Sharing everything on a date 50% My plate is mine 50% Double texting or Playing it cool? Double texting 50% Playing it cool 50% Arguing over text or Face to face only? Arguing over text 50% Face to face only 50% Going to bed together or Each at their own time? Going to bed together 50% Each at their own time 50% Cooking together or One cook in the kitchen? Cooking together 50% One cook in the kitchen 50% Shared streaming profile or Separate profiles? Shared streaming profile 50% Separate profiles 50% Watching ahead secretly or Waiting for your partner? Watching ahead secretly 50% Waiting for your partner 50% Pet names or Real names only? Pet names 50% Real names only 50% Bringing your partner everywhere or Friends-only nights? Bringing your partner everywhere 50% Friends-only nights 50% Secretly loving cancelled plans or Hating cancelled plans? Secretly loving cancelled plans 50% Hating cancelled plans 50% Anniversary trip or Anniversary dinner? Anniversary trip 50% Anniversary dinner 50% Handmade gifts or Store-bought gifts? Handmade gifts 50% Store-bought gifts 50% Recreating your first date or Trying something new? Recreating your first date 50% Trying something new 50% Befriending your friends' partners or Keeping polite distance? Befriending your friends' partners 50% Keeping polite distance 50% New partner meets friends first or Family first? New partner meets friends first 50% Family first 50% Needing your friends' approval or Their opinion doesn't matter? Needing your friends' approval 50% Their opinion doesn't matter 50% Roommate chore chart or Just vibes? Roommate chore chart 50% Just vibes 50% Shared fridge, share everything or Labelled shelves? Shared fridge, share everything 50% Labelled shelves 50% Hosting the holidays or Going to family? Hosting the holidays 50% Going to family 50% Starting new traditions or Keeping the old ones? Starting new traditions 50% Keeping the old ones 50% Grandma's family recipes or Trying new recipes? Grandma's family recipes 50% Trying new recipes 50% Pets sleep in the bed or Pets stay off the bed? Pets sleep in the bed 50% Pets stay off the bed 50% Pet birthday parties or Just an extra treat? Pet birthday parties 50% Just an extra treat 50% Oldest sibling or Youngest sibling? Oldest sibling 50% Youngest sibling 50% Borrowing your sibling's clothes or Hands off my wardrobe? Borrowing your sibling's clothes 50% Hands off my wardrobe 50% The family group chat or Texting everyone separately? The family group chat 50% Texting everyone separately 50% Matching tattoos or Friendship bracelets? Matching tattoos 50% Friendship bracelets 50% The annual friends trip or Weekly hangouts? The annual friends trip 50% Weekly hangouts 50% Knowing your neighbours or Keeping to yourself? Knowing your neighbours 50% Keeping to yourself 50% Elevator small talk or Silent ride? Elevator small talk 50% Silent ride 50% Knocking on the door or Leaving an anonymous note? Knocking on the door 50% Leaving an anonymous note 50% Soft launching your partner or Hard launch? Soft launching your partner 50% Hard launch 50% Video call before the first date or Straight to the date? Video call before the first date 50% Straight to the date 50% Looking them up before the date or Going in blind? Looking them up before the date 50% Going in blind 50% One shared duvet or Two separate duvets? One shared duvet 50% Two separate duvets 50% Ordering for your partner or Everyone orders their own? Ordering for your partner 50% Everyone orders their own 50% Surprise ring or Choosing the ring together? Surprise ring 50% Choosing the ring together 50% Bringing a plus-one or Going solo? Bringing a plus-one 50% Going solo 50% Assigned seating plan or Sit wherever you like? Assigned seating plan 50% Sit wherever you like 50% Diving for the bouquet or Dodging it? Diving for the bouquet 50% Dodging it 50% Godparents from the family or Godparents from your friends? Godparents from the family 50% Godparents from your friends 50% Grandparents who spoil or Grandparents with rules? Grandparents who spoil 50% Grandparents with rules 50% Naming kids after family or A brand new name? Naming kids after family 50% A brand new name 50% Apology flowers or A proper talk? Apology flowers 50% A proper talk 50% Open bar or Cash bar? Open bar 50% Cash bar 50% Grandparents babysitting or Daycare? Grandparents babysitting 50% Daycare 50% Saying sorry out loud or Making it up with actions? Saying sorry out loud 50% Making it up with actions 50% Texting from the next room or Shouting across the house? Texting from the next room 50% Shouting across the house 50% Scheduled date night or Spontaneous dates? Scheduled date night 50% Spontaneous dates 50% Black-tie wedding or Casual wedding? Black-tie wedding 50% Casual wedding 50% Cash in an envelope or Gift from the registry? Cash in an envelope 50% Gift from the registry 50% Honeymoon right after the wedding or Postponing the honeymoon? Honeymoon right after the wedding 50% Postponing the honeymoon 50% Dinner at the table or Dinner on the couch? Dinner at the table 50% Dinner on the couch 50% Moving into one person's place or Getting a new place together? Moving into one person's place 50% Getting a new place together 50%